Let’s find out about the owner’s tendencies through an interview Part 1 (2024 English version)

Let’s find out about the owner’s tendencies through an interview Part 1 (2024)

 

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What Does It Mean to Have an Owner Personality?

An Owner personality is a term used in the BDSM community, typically referring to people who prefer a dominant role. Those with an Owner personality often view themselves as 'Owners' and perceive those they are in relationships with as 'Property' or 'Possessions'. This implies a certain level of power and control over their partner.

 

While there are similarities to other BDSM dynamics (such as Master/Slave), the Owner personality has distinct characteristics and nuances. Owners often have a strong sense of possession over their partners, deeply embedded in their relationships and interactions.

 

Owners also tend to set rules for their partners, manage their behavior, and assign them specific roles. This can vary greatly, affecting different aspects of daily life, such as clothing, meals, schedules, etc. However, all of this is always based on mutual consent and respect, ensuring the partner's safety and well-being. Therefore, Owners play a role in protecting, securing the safety of, and ensuring adherence to the rules they set. This adheres to the important BDSM community principle of 'Safe, Sane, and Consensual' (SSC).

 

An Owner personality reflects an individual's sexual preferences or relationship style, which doesn't necessarily dictate a specific type of relationship. While some people may seek partners to explore or practice their disposition, others may simply recognize this tendency without applying it in actual relationships. It is important to respect each individual's choices and boundaries. The first step for someone with an Owner personality is to gain adequate knowledge about their disposition. Understanding BDSM and the Owner role is essential, including safe play, consent, and responsible power exchange. Moreover, it is important for those with an Owner personality to always adhere to the principles of safety, mutual consent, and well-being. These principles must be upheld in all aspects of BDSM activities.

 

 

What Are the Characteristics of People with an Owner Personality?

People with an Owner personality possess various traits, but there are some common characteristics.

 

1. Dominant Disposition
   People with an Owner personality are generally dominant. They often prefer setting rules for their partners, managing their behaviors, and assigning them specific roles.
   
   
2. Responsibility
   Those with an Owner personality have a strong sense of responsibility towards their partners. They protect them, ensure their safety, and manage their adherence to the set rules.
   
   
3. Possessiveness
   Owners often have a strong sense of possession towards their partners, deeply ingrained in their relationship and interactions.
   
   
4. Communication Skills
   Owners typically possess strong communication skills. They clearly articulate their expectations and demands, and strive to understand and meet their partner's needs and desires through effective communication.
   
   
5. Respect and Responsibility
   Owners respect their partner's boundaries and consent, and hold responsibility for their partner's safety and well-being.
   
   

While these traits are commonly found among those with an Owner personality, each individual possesses their own unique dispositions and characteristics. It is important to respect each person's choices and boundaries, always adhering to the principles of safety, mutual consent, and well-being.

 

 

Can I Determine If I Have an Owner Personality?

The process of discovering an Owner personality varies for each individual, often resulting from self-reflection and exploration. While some may be aware of their dominant tendencies from a young age, others may discover them only in adulthood.

 

There are several ways to recognize if you have an Owner personality.

 

Some discover it through literature or media about BDSM, which often provides insights into various dispositions and roles within BDSM, helping individuals understand their own. Another way is participation in the BDSM community. This community often offers workshops, meetings, and educational sessions, through which people can learn about and explore different dispositions and roles. Such environments allow individuals to explore and practice their dispositions in a safe and supportive manner. Lastly, consulting with therapists or sex counselors can also assist in understanding one’s disposition. These professionals often help individuals understand and healthily express their sexual preferences and dispositions.